It is true that because of my stomach problem, we are unable to go on the trip so it is my responsibility in that sense. That is different than holding me responsible for making the wrong choice when the choice I made is the only choice I could have made at that moment. Maybe I was unaware that there were 10 different dishes to choose from. Maybe I thought I had overcome my allergy to a certain ingredient in the dish and decided to take a chance. Regardless of the reason, the point I'm making is that I could not have chosen otherwise given the pros and cons that determined my choice at the time. I'm sure I feel terrible now that we have had to postpone the trip on my account, so my choice will probably be to eat a different dish next time.
Sorry, but you still do not get the meaning of 'You could have done otherwise' right.
Let's make a second example (a bit absurd, but it will do): yesterday the company you work for had the yearly outing, and to the program belongs a meal in this cantina. Now your boss is quite an egomaniac, and refusing to eat the meal he has ordered for everybody would be a serious offence for him, and it might cost you your job. You know there are white beans in it, but you hope you have overcome your allergy, so you eat eat. The next day, at the point we would go on this holiday trip, you have your serious diarrhoea, as in the other example. So again, I cry out 'But for God’s sake, where did you eat white beans! You know you are allergic for it!’. You say 'It was in the dish in the cantina yesterday...'. And I react 'But you could have chosen something else!’. Now you say 'No, I could not, there was other meal,
I could not have done otherwise'. Of course the threat to lose your job against the risk of having an allergic reaction, you made your choice, and this time I understand: you really could not have done otherwise.
You see the difference with the restaurant? In both cases, you are responsible for our holiday falling into the water, but in the first case, with the fact that you had a choice between 10 dishes I
justified do not accept your excuse, because
you could have done otherwise. In the cantina, with the also for me unacceptable risk that you would lose your job, and only one dish available,
you could not have done otherwise.
So, take the following interpretation of 'doing otherwise':
1. present tense:
I take dish 5, or I can take another dish.
2. past tense:
I took dish 5, or I could have taken another dish.
3. past tense, just more general expressed:
I took dish 5, but I could have done otherwise.
Just refrain from metaphysical interpretations, just see that 2. is the past tense of 1, i.e. I just look back to the moment yesterday, shortly before I ordered my dish. Can you at least see that this is a
possible interpretation? I don't ask you to agree with me that that most people mean it like that, I only ask you to see if this is a
possible interpretation.
Now, my compatibilist position is that this meaning is
enough for assigning responsibility. In the case of the cantina I accept what has happened, in the case of the restaurant, I am, justified, totally angry with you.
Because you could have done otherwise. In the simple plain meaning of the past tense of 'I can do this, or I can do that'. And because it is enough for assigning responsibiity, it counts as a free act, as an expression of free will. Nobody forced you in the restaurant to take dish 5, but due to the circumstances of the availability of only one dish, you were forced to eat the meal.
As you see, if we are determined or not did not even needed mentioning. The only thing we must accept is that there are
real options: there
are 10 different dishes in the restaurant, something we have not in the cantina.
Now, to bring me from this standpoint, you must show that we need this funny libertarian conception of free will 'that we really could have done otherwise' for responsibility (a conception on which we agree that is does not exist), i.e. that my conception of 'could have done otherwise' does not suffice.
Beware: I will be angry with you because it is your fault we can't go on holiday! In other words: can you convince me that I do not make you responsible for this, with your excuse 'but I could not have done otherwise...'?
As you probably see, this is the
second point I raised in
the other thread].
To shortly mention the
first: can the compatibilist view in free will explain all our feelings of free will?
I am just trying to get you to understand why we have no free will so I can continue. If you cannot show me where he was wrong in stating that we are compelled to move in the direction of greater satisfaction, then you will hopefully allow me to continue using this knowledge as the basis for further investigation. If not, I can't move on.
Well, you will have some trouble to go on then. You lay heavy under two spells of language. The correct way to see them is:
1. That 'could have done otherwise' is just the past tense of 'capable to choose now'
2. That being compelled by your own good reasons
is an expression of free will.
The first one you share with all people who think that because of determinism free will does not exist. The second one is not that clear to me, because your expression shows more clearly than others the absurdity of the notion that because everything is caused, we have no free will. We
have free will:
when my actions are caused by my own reasons.