Thank you for saying that. As someone who has suffered a considerable amount of clinical depression, I can tell you that one of the worst things about it is that people can't seem to wrap their brains around the fact that it is no more your fault than any other disease--perhaps less so.
That's one of the
worst things about it? Is that one of the symptoms? One of the clinical symptoms?
People just don't get it.
What do you want us to get? What if I
did get it? Would that help all the depressed people? Would that help you?
Depression is not an attitude problem. It's not something caused by thinking errors and it's certainly not "anger turned inward" (although I suppose it can be, and some therapists seem to heavily promote these concepts).
Ok. That's true enough. However your alternate take on the disease is probably even more flawed:
I believe in most cases depression is a mental illness cause by trying to fit a square peg into a round hole--the peg being certain types of people and the hole being society.
As far as I know any depression that's worth mentioning is caused by chemical imbalances. That's all.
It certainly isn't an illness caused by "trying to fit a square peg in a round hole."
But if that line of thinking is working for you....
You: "
That's one of the
worst things about it? Is that one of the symptoms? One of the clinical symptoms?"
Me: For me and many others, yes it is one of the hardest things about being depressed. And no, other people's reaction to a person's depression is not a clinical symptom of that person's depression. What kind of idiot would think I was suggesting any such thing?
You: "What do you want us to get? What if I
did get it? Would that help all the depressed people? Would that help you?"
Me: Would it help depressed people if people stopped blaming them for their illness and made an effort to understand it? Um, yeah. Did you seriously just ask me that?
You: "Ok. That's true enough. However your alternate take on the disease is probably even more flawed:"
Me: My "take" on depression isn't exactly on the fringes of expert opinion, so why so dismissive?
Why so hostile anyway? Does being a bully make you feel special?
You: "As far as I know any depression that's worth mentioning is caused by chemical imbalances. That's all.
It certainly isn't an illness caused by "trying to fit a square peg in a round hole."
But if that line of thinking is working for you..."
Me: There's little evidence that depression is caused by a "chemical imbalance". If depression is caused by a deficiency of serotonin, why do SSRE's (selective serotonin reuptake
enhancers) "work" just as well in clinical trials as the more standard SSRI's (serotonin reuptake
inhibitors) and SNRI's (serotonin-norepinephrine reuptake
inhibitors)? In fact, there's an antidepressant approved for use in France that is an SSRE called Tianeptine. Further, any drug that reasonably mimics the side effects of antidepressants (active placebos) will perform just as well in clinical trials as the real thing. This alone smashes the serotonin deficiency theory of depression.