@sree
White people don’t hate black people. Why don’t you get that into your head? So, stop poisoning yourself with non-existing negative systemic racist stuff.
Sree, you are the one poisoning yourself with non-existing negative systimace racist stuff, especially the way you talk about poor black children as though all of them live that way. You have no idea and I truly believe some of what you’re saying you are making up, but that said, have you walked down the sidewalk with your baby in a stroller and man walks up and call you a “n***** lover” or lose a job because you refuse to break off things with the person you love? Have you ever dealt with the “one drop rule” and do you even know what that is? Have you ever had to deal with any of your children not able to get something simply due to their skin colour? Have you ever had your children pushed back and forth by kids who say to them “you’re not black enough” or “you’re not white enough”? Oh then there is my favourite, you and your family move into a neighbourhood that is mostly white and your kids are called, “porch monkeys”? (That’s why I like diverse neighbourhoods, because that crap isn’t there) Have any of your kids been stopped walking home from a game carrying his bat and a cop stops him, takes his bat and then examines it, scaring your child to death before giving it back to him? And don’t tell me that last happens to white children, because it doesn’t. The list goes on and on and on, but I bet you never really have dealt with anything like that. Have you ever had car trouble in the middle of the night in the middle of town with your kids in the back seat and a cop stops to ask you what the trouble is and you be scared to death he’d haul you in and take away your kids for it? I have and I seriously doubt you have any idea, including how scary cops can be. You also have no idea that before Loving v Virginia, my former husband, their dad, and I would have been thrown in jail and our children placed in foster care and maybe a black family, if they were were lucky. The stuff with or fear of police has its basis in history and the oppression that comes with it does too. It’s also why we need diversity so these things hopefully happen with less frequency.
BTW, in case anyone is curious, the scary cop ended with him not being so bad. He called us a tow truck and we got home safely, which was before cell phones become popular and you had to get out an walk to a pay phone still. Even so, it might not have turned out so great if we had gotten a bad racist cop.
Here’s the good thing about diversity, it was black women that taught me how to care for black hair. More than once in my life, when I needed a job really badly, more than once a black business owner hired me and at least one a Latino hired me. They step up and help those who treat them like human beings, wanting to be friends and to learn from them too. I have also gotten to enjoy a sweat, despite not knowing all my Native ancestry, had pot lucks with Natives, and other activities with Natives. I can also tell you, they didn’t neglect their children nor did they all live in roach infested slums. I’d also take a knee with any of the football players in protest of how black people are treated.
And let me tell you one more thing- my younger son hooked up with a white girl (no surprise) and had a child. Her dad hates my son, even my older son has noticed this, and her dad has even called my younger son the n-word at least once, yelling at his daughter about having a “black boy’s babies” after she gave birth to twins, a second time around, forcing her to give the twins up for adoption. He dad let her keep the older child, who’s also my son’s son. Mind you she’s a grown woman in her 20s this whole time. My son and she get into a fight and my son’s charged with domestic assault (white girl screaming rape, in order to get into her daddy’s good graces again) and he’s called a danger to the community, just with alleged domestic assault. Anyway, he spent the last 3 months in a petri dish, with his trial pushed off each time until the beginning of this month. First the attorney he requested hadn’t been assigned, so the trial was rescheduled with him still in jail. Then he had an attorney, but his attorney hadn’t talked to him. Postponed again. Then it was postponed again for some other reason. Finally he got his trial. He plead not guilty. Judge said guilty. My son requested for time served due to the fact he’d been in jail all this time, but got probation and was free only if he could obey the law. Tell me, how fair is it when you are denied a fair and speedy trial as per the Constitution? How many white men get into a fight with their girlfriend end up with domestic assault charges, and then get the run around for 3 months concerning a trial? Most are released from jail soon after, some the next day. Does it go to trial? Maybe in divorce cases, but not too many white men seem to spend that much time locked up prior to court and getting jerked around concerning a trial over domestic assault charges, guilty or not. The fact is, many black men do not get a fair trial or even a trial at all, if the cop kills them.