Allowing women their right to self-defense and self-determination - WHY NOT?

While American evangelicals seem to be gaining power in their absolutist totalitarian drive to outlaw all abortions (while demonizing contraceptives in the bargain, some surprising place are showing a ray of sanity and humanity.

After Ireland Abortion Vote, Northern Irish Ask, ‘Why Not Us?’
May 28, 2018 - By Kimiko de Freytas-Tamura and Alan Cowell
BELFAST, Northern Ireland — Tyler McNally was surprised when he answered a knock on the door of his Belfast house one evening to find two police officers standing there, and shocked when they presented a warrant to search the premises. They had reason to believe, Mr. McNally was told, that he had ordered abortion pills online for “a vulnerable woman."

“Having two police officers sit in my living room and tell me that I may face life imprisonment only to then toy with the idea of bringing me in for questioning in cuffs or just invite me in to ‘try and get me to talk’ was quite a harrowing experience," he said, “and I’m not someone depending on access to abortion services."
Ireland’s vote on Friday to end its near ban on abortion, overwhelmingly supporting change in what used to be a bastion of Roman Catholic influence, has inspired many calls in Belfast, London and elsewhere for similar liberalization in British-ruled Northern Ireland, whose draconian laws governing the termination of pregnancy date to the 19th century. …

Further reading:
Ireland Votes to End Abortion Ban, in Rebuke to Catholic Conservatism
Where Did Ireland Go? Abortion Vote Stuns Those on Both Sides
In the era of dogma driven political insanity, I raise a toast to the fine people of Ireland, may their example be a shining light and inspiration for rationalists and humanists everywhere.

So then: Why not allow women their right to self-defense and self-determination?

Perhaps the more important question
how is it that all smart movers and doers of “liberal, progressive movement" have been so impotent in their responses to childish fear and dogma driven arguments of the extreme right
who’ve managed to bully themselves onto the middle of the road these days, while we look on with our thumbs … never mind.
For instance, Why have I never heard in public debates or ads, that
contraceptive and abortion rights are the most fundamental of Human Rights!
Why has Faith-Based, disconnected from physical reality, dogma been allowed such a free ride?
Why can’t we demand and ask them to explain exactly why an unborn, developing fetus with no guarantee of birth (spontaneous natural abortions and all that), sacred life though it is, is more important that already born and growing children, or the safety and health of their mothers?

Dear "pro-lifer’,
What is it that makes a fetus the most sacred and untouchable of human lives???
Can any one explain that?