I hate this point in a conversation. It’s the point where they realize they aren’t getting through to anyway, definitely DO NOT want to listen to anything anyone who opposes them is saying, and rationalize that we aren’t listening to this ridiculous hearsay, not because their claims are not, themselves, compelling “evidence” to support their claims, but because we’re all biased and decided before the conversation started how we want the world to look and that’s the end of it.
Bob, I want there to be mysterious things in the universe. I have felt trapped on this muddy rock for most of my life. But I’m never going to be able to touch the stars. The technology just isn’t there in my lifetime. But I want to look at the universe and say, “Here’s a mystery I can touch! Here’s a mystery I can examine and play with!” Short of getting a physics degree at near 50 years old and then finding a way to pay off the debt with minimal job prospects for a 50 year old with a shiny new physics degree, what you offer, were it real, is the only way I would ever get to do that. But I’m not satisfied with simply pretending that I have a mystery I can touch, I want the real thing. And I’m sorry, but even if I believed every actual fact you stated (and for the record, I do) I still wouldn’t agree with you. I really think you ran an experiment with a plant to try to kill it with your mind and I really think it died. What I don’t think is that your single, unscientific, never repeated so you don’t spoil the perfect record experiment actually says you did what you set out to do.
The reason we reject what you’re saying is not because we’re mean or closed minded. It’s because it flies in the face of all scientific knowledge. “Personal experiences” are useless as ways of discovering truth. They’re very subjective and open to personal interpretation, which is given when the experience is recounted. A lot of scientific studies have been done on just about every subject you can imagine, including alien visitation, spectral apparitions and psychic powers. The ones not accepted as science turned up nothing to support the claims. THAT is why they are not science and THAT is why we reject them.
Let me leave you with a story which I think expresses my point perfectly. I used to be part of a UFO forum many years ago. I don’t have much in the way of memories from my childhood because my brain is stupid, but I do remember watching the skies for moving lights as a child. And one night, maybe about a decade ago, I saw what I had been waiting for all my life. I saw UFOs one night. There was a group of them, gliding silently, flying in perfect formation. They were very high up, just dots in the sky. At the distance they were from me they were moving incredibly fast, changing directions at speeds that would kill us in a human-made aircraft. It was incredible. At least, that’s how I would have described it, had not the flock of geese started honking. The town lights were reflecting off their white bellies, making them look like small, dim, distant lights on a clear night. Before I heard that I was amazed. I thought “Maybe I’m seeing the real thing!” I wanted to be seeing the real thing. And my description of the event, even trying really hard to be objective, would have been tainted by my subjectivity had I not identified them. I would have described the lights as very far off, moving very fast in formation, changing directions at incredible speeds because that’s what I thought I saw. And someone who believed in alien visitation would have seen that as “evidence” to support their beliefs. A flock of geese would have reinforced belief in alien visitation. That’s why “personal experience” is pretty much useless for gaining knowledge. You would have had to question me a lot just to get to the actual facts, that I saw some moving lights in the sky and drew a bunch of conclusions from that which I believed were reasonable.