A good cartoon explains a lot.

https://plus.google.com/115096286241331785022?cfem=1#115096286241331785022/posts?cfem=1

What cartoon? The link takes me to a Google+ page.

Sorry Darron, apparently my computer skills are not good enough to get you directly to the cartoon. If you can get to the Recovering From Religion WNY page its the 4th entry down.