What are vibes?

[inthedarkness]

@lausten

“Keep going back” is your thing. I stated that very early on and pointed you to links about OCD and Autism more than once. I can’t help you with that. You have to trust me as someone who could coach you and help you with exercises to deal with it, and you don’t trust me, and I’m not trained in doing that.

I can’t make it stop, it feels like I either need an answer to it or that I’m missing something in regards to it.

@lausten

Arguing is the thing you do to avoid facing that life is difficult but with effort, joy and peace can be found.

I don’t know that if with effort joy and peace can be found. I said on the other thread my efforts to try to make my own way haven’t worked out.

More than that the people I trust to help me usually let me down.

@lausten

If you know your family and dogs are things you like, then you’ve figured out the secret to a good life. Congratulations, many people never get that. Now, go live.

Can’t do that with no job, no money, and no real way to get there. All the jobs around me are taken and my A+ (Comptia) isn’t good for anything around here. Every job hiring in IT has been some senior position I don’t qualify for.

[lausten]

@inthedarkness

it feels like I either need an answer to it or that I’m missing something in regards to it.

You’ve said that a billion times and I’ve said there are people like you who have stopped but I can’t do it. You’re arguing for the sake of arguing

[inthedarkness]

@lausten

You’ve said that a billion times and I’ve said there are people like you who have stopped but I can’t do it. You’re arguing for the sake of arguing

I’m not trying to I just don’t know how to make it stop.

[write4u]

@inthedarkness

I’m not trying to I just don’t know how to make it stop.

OK, I challenge you to come up with a news article that you believe may be of interest to this forum.
It doesn’t need to be fundamental or complex. Just a question about something that does not pertain to you personally.

Let me start : " Can you explain to me how bacteria communicate" ?
Just a few lines or a quoted passage will do. Can you do this for me?

[lausten]

@inthedarkness

I’m not trying to I just don’t know how to make it stop.

I know you don’t. I never said you could do this on your own. I don’t know how to make it stop either. It’s probably something like understanding what of “it” is part of being a typical human, and what is out of the ordinary. And probably more like learning to live with it, not stop it. Look at any reports of people who have sought help and now feel better. I’m not making a diagnosis, and it’s not important at this point for you to self-diagnose, just look at what others say about how they had thoughts like yours before and what they say now.

[inthedarkness]

@lausten

Look at any reports of people who have sought help and now feel better. I’m not making a diagnosis, and it’s not important at this point for you to self-diagnose, just look at what others say about how they had thoughts like yours before and what they say now.

I have read what they say but I don’t really understand it. Like I try to but for some reason I can’t get around that “not being objective” part. For some reason to me it feels like lying to myself.