The reason we can’t “treat people the same” is because, for generations, certain people haven’t treated the same.
This…
…may be genuine and well-meaning, but it’s just bonkers.
Racism exists. White privilege exists. Solutions are difficult.
People who say “I don’t see race! I don’t care if you’re black, brown, yellow or green,” may be genuinely nice folks, but they’re part of the problem.
(Actor Don Cheadle actually re-tweeted me last year when I said that on Twitter!)
The thing about “racist jokes” depends on your definition of them. Who’s the butt of the joke?
There is a difference between:
Laughing at a group of people you have stereotyped
And
Laughing at the people who have stereotypes of other people.
And if you are honest, you should see yourself reflected.
Sarcasm, satire and dark humor communicate important things about important topics, including racism. Really good humor sometimes makes us really uncomfortable. And calling someone out for being racist isn’t being racist.
I saw this hilarious example of how needing to try extra hard not to be racist is actually racist last night on “The Office:”
Michael, the boss, has brought in some cake for the staff.
MICHAEL: Hey everybody, cake! Tell me what kind!
STANLEY: Chocolate.
MICHAEL: Racism’s dead, Stanley. Today in America, you can have any flavor you want.
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This is classic. It’s only 2.48 minutes long, and it is required viewing for anyone trying to understand what racism is and isn’t.
Aamer Rahman, an Australian stand-up comedian of Bangladeshi descent, explains why “reverse racism” isn’t a thing: