Why there are "Nones"

But I think, the recent religious violence contributes a lot to the rise of the "nones".
Yes, there is that judgmental aspect of spiritual - and therefore moral - deficiency, which is best to avoid altogether. Having many devout friends, I focus on their actions, rather than beliefs.
Pascal Wager is one of the biggest reason why people believe.
Fascinating. Of course to me it implies coercion or "faking it." Perhaps they could be open to reason and be reached if they had a little more confidence and some encouragement. I also wonder about those who have trouble coping with guilt, or are afraid, or desperate.
But when it costs too much, it is no longer worth it.
I wonder what that breaking point generally is? Could it be the pressure of keeping up appearances that are not heartfelt, or feeling separated from friends and family who are not devout? I suppose it's different for each person.