As much as I don’t agree with Watts on many things I think he nailed it on this one far better than Tolle did. He equated life with being a song or dance where the whole point is the doing and not getting to the end. It reminds me of my life of always trying to get somewhere and never truly arriving. When I finally do then what? I let my whole life blur by and missed everything. It kind of reminds me of playing to win, being so outcome focused that you miss the point of the game.